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Re: Adam Slaney Facebook Warning: Real or DoS attack?

PurpleCar — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 07:27:41 -0000

MIke: I KNOW! Back in 2008! Isn't that a shame that this Adam Slaney hoax on Facebook is still making the rounds?

I don't watch my blog stats, but whenever I pass my Wordpress Dashboard, this post is always at the top. It's gotten, literally, thousands of views. I keep adding the new names that get put on the spam email, so people can just search on the name and find out it's hoax. Snopes is wonderful, but they can't keep adding every new name that comes down the pike. If you see any new names in the hoax, please come back to purplecar.net and let me know, or find me on facebook as facebook.com/christinecavalier/

And don't worry too much about your friends. Everyone is in a learning stage right now. It's only been 10 years or so of widespread internet access, and it's a scary place. There is very little regulation, protection or education about it. Try to have some patience with the end users. (Of course, I say this, but I rip my hair out over their inane behaviors on a weekly basis.)

Thanks for checking in!

Peace!
-PurpleCar
http://www.purplecar.net/

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Re: New Post for Troy!

PurpleCar — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 09:50:06 -0000

Thanks Hailey! You're right, troops need mail and support, no matter what our politics are.

Re: Quick Review: The Fattening of America by Finklestein & Zuckerman

PurpleCar — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 20:36:34 -0000

OH! and I've seen SuperSizeMe. Awesome.

Peace!
-PurpleCar
http://www.purplecar.net/

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Re: Quick Review: The Fattening of America by Finklestein & Zuckerman

PurpleCar — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 20:36:31 -0000

Yes I think that's on my list. There is a superfreakonomics now too.

Peace!
-PurpleCar
http://www.purplecar.net/

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Re: Bye-Bye, Amazon: Why I Won’t Write Reviews For You Again

PurpleCar — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 23:22:17 -0000

No problem Mike! You know me (literally!). I'm a font of information. Or copied and pasted emails, which pretty much constitute "information" nowadays.

Thanks for stopping in!

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Re: Bye-Bye, Amazon: Why I Won’t Write Reviews For You Again

PurpleCar — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 22:14:02 -0000

Thomas, thanks so much!

Firstly, good work on the Amazon TOS. I was hoping someone like you would find the exact paragraph in all that muck. My gratitude!

Secondly, thanks for clarifying "fair use." Will think about revising my post to cut out the unofficial use of it. Can't do that right at this moment but I will look at it soon. (Not a big fan of major editing after posting, so I may just publish an "Update" of your useful information.) Again, my thanks.

Thirdly, yes, you're correct, Amazon can still publish my work even though I deleted it, but deleting it is my little form of protest. Also, it's my hope that their huge infrastructure will re-claim the dinky white (disk) space and truly delete the work, or at least remove it from the freely-referenced content. I'm not privvy to their infrastructure design, but I know as a former sys admin that it's possible that my deleting the work may keep it from being distributed again.

Re: Bye-Bye, Amazon: Why I Won’t Write Reviews For You Again

PurpleCar — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:49:04 -0000

Sending them an invoice would just be an experiment, and ending up being an experiment in futility I'm sure. But if my review is still up on newandusedbooks.com without credit in 3 business days, I will send them an invoice.

This is a legal hole, I think. Amazon says they own the content and can sell it (I'm assuming), so newandusedbooks.com will refer me to that policy. Still, it doesn't seem that newandusedbooks have set up protection from this. I'm not a barister or a lawyer, so I don't know. It would be interesting to find out. The point of contention is that they removed the links. Amazon lets you have a link in exchange for the review, but they let their affiliates remove those links. That seems unfair.

I may call up my intellectual property lawyer friend about this.

Re: Effective Immediately- No More Auto-Follow

PurpleCar — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:03:25 -0000

Thanks, Chris! I made the same decision a few months ago. It's a shame. But it is easier to click on every name in my @ replies (mentions) list to make sure I'm following back than it is to sort through all of the spam/spammers. Good luck. -PC

Re: Teaching for the Future - wearethedigitalkids: somethingchanged: “Clay...

PurpleCar — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 10:46:16 -0000

Why can't this Clay Shirky write like this? He is perfectly understandable in this video, unlike his book "Here Comes Everybody," where he used overwrought, pedantic and esoteric language (yes I used haughty words to describe Clay's haughty words, the irony isn't lost on me). I really actually like Clay Shirky, I think he's smart. But I wish he would write for a more general audience; now his writing just comes across as elitist.

Anyway: I like how he is approaching the emotional impact of false media and connections. Thanks for posting!

Re: The Use of U

PurpleCar — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:54:35 -0000

w00t! I'm a big fan of moving the language forward at a bit of a faster pace than normally (which is about the speed of a turtle with a bad cold).

Re: Disqus lost my comment

PurpleCar — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 07:50:46 -0000

This is the first dropped comment I've run into myself, but I have no way of knowing who else may have run into it here. I also have a hard time with the spam filter. I send an email to delete the spam, but it remains on my blog's admin page and I have to manually delete it there.

*sigh*

Thanks for telling me that, I think if Marina Martin, internetz queen, ditched disqus, maybe I should too. -PC

Re: Comma Controversy

PurpleCar — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 16:36:31 -0000

Thanks for commenting!

I think we should note that the commas separating address parts are for paragraphs only. I had a little contention with the 3rd grade curriculum this year, as they were teaching the old convention for snail mail addressing. I sent a link to the Post Office website to the teacher. No punctuation and all caps are preferred by the Post Office now. Personally I find that adding the 4 digit code onto the end of the Zip Code helps speed delivery too.

Yes I know I didn't put a comma after the first word of the last sentence or the first word of this one.

If I wanted more dramatic effect, I would've placed the commas there.

I'd say tell him to read whatever he writes out loud. That is an old novelist's technique and it truly does help with style and flow.

By the way, when did we have the same English teacher? Who are we talking about? Miss Martin? Sister-what's-her-name?

-PC

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Re: Adam Slaney Facebook Warning: Real or DoS attack?

PurpleCar — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 06:33:44 -0000

Sarah,

There isn't any hacking risk to accepting a friend request on Facebook. You can accept any requests you like. Accepting friend requests from the people listed in this note (or any new ones that come along) won't do any harm, to you or your computer. It's just not how hacking works. A hacker needs your password, for any site that has password protection on the internet (like Facebook). Even friends on Facebook don't get to view your password, nor could they hack their way to it just because of the friend connection.

Believe me, if there were a way to hack friend connections, the hackers would have already done it by now. How would Facebook survive if they didn't code this basic security into the platform? These types of emails are just hogswash, meant as a joke or denial-of-service attack on others. They also spread TRULY unnecessary fear. So yes, friend Adam Slaney and the others. They'll be able to see everything you haven't marked private, but they will never be able to navigate to your password, let alone a totally different email account on totally different servers with totally different companies (The whole "warning" is ridiculous).

-PC

Re: We the Tweeple

PurpleCar — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 16:20:40 -0000

I LOVE that link, all of those charts and graphs! (you know I love me the statistics!) I'll have to look up Sysomos more often.

Re: Getting a blogging job – five tips – Problogger

PurpleCar — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 13:28:48 -0000

Thanks for sharing. I think he's deluding himself and us about the blogging jobs on craigslist and other sites. Firstly, many of them are scams, Secondly, many of them and other blogging jobs are offered at slave-labor rates, not at all worth the effort and risk of harming your reputation when the news leaks that you will blog for pennies.

So, it kind of enrages me, actually, that he would put out this kind of "advice." It isn't good advice for writers who live in the real world. It's for lay people who want to see their name somewhere and they would do it for free.

Re: Facebook.com/username

PurpleCar — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:17:35 -0000

UPDATE: My friend Bill Cammack talked about this over on his awesome blog. As is usually the case, we tend to clarify our points in comments better than we do if we just post on our own. Go over and read his post (it's short). Here's my comment over there. It goes into a bit more of my thought process on why I chose my real name instead of my username on Facebook:

"Hey man, I posted on this too. I was wondering about this myself. Facebook.com/christine.cavalier is my vanity URL but I almost took /purplecar. My reasoning was this: every other web app I take the "username" purplecar and "real name" christine cavalier. Why should facebook be different? But then I thought about the search behaviors of people on Facebook.

People search Facebook in a unique manner, compared to other sites. They search for people, mostly, by just name, forgoing drilling down into networks or groups until after their initial search has turned up fruitless (yet abundant) search results. (We all are acutely aware of the search problems on Facebook).

Also, I considered the population. On sites like Jaiku, we are all social media industry people. These techie types know how to search on username AND then real name. More and more "normal" people are coming on Facebook, especially our schoolmates. How will they search for me? By my name.

It's possible that once "normal" people become familiar with the vanity URL, they won't search Facebook for a friend. Instead they will first try their luck on typing in facebook.com/christinecavalier (the dot is irrelevant, both christinecavalier and christine.cavalier will work).

So, there's my long explanation on how I came to break my standard username-first policy for social media sites. I treated Facebook as the unique exception (and crappy search engine) that it is.

-PC"

What did you guys choose, and why? Let me know here. Thanks!

Re: Book Review: Twilight Series Is a Primer for the Mormon Religion and Is Boring.

PurpleCar — Fri, 29 May 2009 16:11:37 -0000

Michelle,

Exactly. Thanks for commenting! Come back and link me to your post when you are done.

I forgot to add the child-marriage aspect. My friend pointed out that the "imprinting" on babies thing is basically a child-marriage arrangement. We've all seen spin-offs of the Mormon church do this very thing, probably due to a fundamental belief in fate and pre-ordained couplings. With Jacob imprinting on Nessie and his other friend imprinting on the two year old girl, it supports that very fate-controlled life, especially for girls. Yuck.

I totally agree that Bella and Edward are pathetic. It was quite annoying.

-PC

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Re: To Friend or Not To Friend the Ex.

PurpleCar — Sun, 24 May 2009 21:27:08 -0000

Hi Monkey Chick!

Well, first let me say Congratulations on starting your new life. Divorce can be a beginning, too.

I usually keep my advice to online etiquette and computing issues, as I'm not a counselor, but I felt compelled to answer you.

I think you should treat this man as only a little more than a stranger. He's involved with a woman who is about to have his child. You do *not* want to get in the middle of that. Honestly, the guy sounds like he is looking for any way out of the
ridiculous yet serious situation his irresponsible behavior has gotten
him into. Don't give him that excuse.

Ask yourself if it is really this man that you want or is it the comforting idea that you *do* have good taste in men. By getting back together with an ex, it's as if you are proving to yourself that you had it right but just got off the path somehow. After divorce, that crushing sense of failure can put false hope in unhealthy places. Keep your FB and MySpace relations strictly to girlfriends and family for a while. Update daily so your friends can comment with their support.

Find yourself a good counselor. Your insurance company will have counseling practices that they work with, or ask a friend for a suggestion. Do not make any major moves with anyone, especially not an ex, until you are absolutely sure you are doing the right thing. You aren't a failure. You *will* find a man worthy of the person you're growing into. Give yourself some time to grow into that older, wiser, more confident and more beautiful person.

Come back in 9-12 months to let me know how it is going, OK? Good luck!

-PC

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Re: Book Review: Twilight Series Is a Primer for the Mormon Religion and Is Boring.

PurpleCar — Fri, 22 May 2009 17:05:20 -0000

Calla,

that's what really got to me about the Twilight series: the abusive relationship and how no-one is talking about it. I really should have put that subject up at the top and put the religious aspect down at the bottom. But I guess the treating of women as second-class citizens is pretty rampant in conservative religions, so it's all relevant...

I'm glad you're finally done! I hope some parents do in fact read the books to make the decision for themselves what ages are appropriate. I'm shocked to find that some 10 year old girls are reading this stuff. My 9 year old girl is diving into Harry Potter now and I know I'll have some interesting conversations with her throughout the series. There's no way she'll be ready for Twilight until she's at least 14, and she'll have to be a pretty savvy 14 year old at that. I'd rather girls under 18 not read it at all, actually.

Anyway, the facts that the series is escaping scrutiny and is gathering momentum in the mom set are baffling to me. I just don't get it.

Thanks for coming by after you finished the books!

-PC

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Re: Book Review: Twilight Series Is a Primer for the Mormon Religion and Is Boring.

PurpleCar — Fri, 22 May 2009 10:23:46 -0000

Glenn,

Thanks for asking!

Edward's values are conservative, and I did make a parenthetical statement above that Edward's beliefs are aligned with any conservative christian religion. What I found to be particularly Mormon was the young marriage and the immediate procreation. I'm not sure if there is any written tenets in Mormon that dictate that practice, but it is certainly part of the culture surrounding the religion.

If you are asking about the history of Mormon, the wikipedia entry (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Church_of_Jesu...) says that the church was founded circa 1830, well before Edward was born (according to the fuzzy timeline in the Twilight series).

There is nothing in the books that indicates any particular religious tradition in Edward's (or any other character's) history. A religious background and conflict with belief systems are usually explored in other vampire novels, so I was actually surprised that Meyer ignored this tradition in the genre. The books and characters would have been a bit more interesting if Meyer did present some inner conflict in that light.

I'm not sure if that answers your question. Let me know if I can clarify.

-PC

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Re: Book Review: Twilight Series Is a Primer for the Mormon Religion and Is Boring.

PurpleCar — Fri, 15 May 2009 20:39:11 -0000

Mandy,

Thanks for putting that two cents in! I live in the Philadelphia area and I don't get to see this kind of culture much. It sounds pretty repressive. Actually, I'm a bit shocked to hear about the teen pregnancy rates there, but they are on the rise around the country, more in the conservative states. You'd think we'd learn about repression and rebellion at some point.

At any rate, you are allowed to be an independent person! There is nothing in the New Testament (which is Jesus's new covenant and meant to wipe away the Old Testament) that says women must be with a man to be saved. Some sects of Mormon, I think, stray away from that. My friend Curtis, who commented here, is no where NEAR like that, so it is very confusing what Mormon actually stands for. It's a shame that they feel like they can tell you how to live your life.

Keep strong. This is America. You can live where you want and practice whatever religion you like in peace. It's not only the law, but it is morally and ethically the better choice (IMHO). I'm glad you filled us in on a reason why the books have Bella totally lose herself in Edward. Thanks.

-PC

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Re: Book Review: Twilight Series Is a Primer for the Mormon Religion and Is Boring.

PurpleCar — Tue, 12 May 2009 19:24:20 -0000

Milosa,

thanks for writing!

Yes the series does go downhill, as Bella is literally kidnapped and held against her will in a following book. Edward bribes his sister with a sports car to capture and retain Bella for a weekend. Bella has to be cunning in order to slip out. Animosity abounds on both sides from her friend Jacob and from Edward. They each tell her repeatedly how the other is bad for her and how she should dump the relationship. Bella is threatened both by the friend and her lover that she will be forced to sever all ties with the other. It's ridiculous.

The scariest part is that the 4th book has it all working out in the end. What kind of message is this?

I just wish Bella had more of a sense of self. We all know what it is like to be consumed by a relationship, but 99.9% of us have the perseverance to move on after the end of it. Not Bella. She lets it consume her.

Besides all of this, the characters are awfully selfish... I don't know. I think a series like this would have been able to have good messages in it for girls. I shudder to think what 10 year olds are learning from it.

-PC

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Re: 5 Ways to Get More Sex from Your Wife

PurpleCar — Fri, 08 May 2009 21:18:16 -0000

Amen, Brother!

Re: 5 Ways to Get More Sex from Your Wife

PurpleCar — Fri, 08 May 2009 19:01:24 -0000

Thanks Bill & Zen Mom! Seems like I gotta state the obvious, but you know, whatever works! :)

Re: When Twitter Goes Down

PurpleCar — Fri, 08 May 2009 18:01:50 -0000

Yes but I had my NetNewsWire up and this came down right away! That's good, right?